Preparing for emergencies with a husband who has Parkinson’s
How we're trying to plan for the unknown, whatever it brings
I’m the ultimate planner — just ask my family. Knowing the next life steps for my husband, my children, and myself offers me a sense of peace and calm. Because of that, I’m constantly planning and trying to organize our lives.
Planning is especially important when a family member is living with a chronic illness. My husband, Arman, has Parkinson’s disease, so I try to prepare for anything that could come our way in the short and long term.
I’ve been thinking a lot about this topic recently, with respect to the natural disasters that have struck the U.S. Southeast. Although I live in the northern part of the country, I’ve wondered how people with conditions such as Parkinson’s are surviving the effects of these storms. How are they managing their illness? Can they access their medications? Do they need electricity to run or charge medical devices? My mind is spinning with questions and concerns.
Modern communication and accurate weather predictions help us all make plans. Living in a colder climate, I typically know when a winter storm is approaching and stock up on essential supplies. But what about planning for things that we can’t predict? Is there a way to prepare for the unknown and unexpected?
Planning for the unknown
For Arman, who was diagnosed with early-onset Parkinson’s disease 15 years ago, oral medication is necessary in addition to his deep brain stimulator (DBS) for symptom control (or lack thereof on some days). I asked Arman what would happen if he were unable to access medication or charge his DBS.
He explained that although he charges his DBS daily, the battery should (hopefully) last about a week without a charge, which relieved me. For oral medication, though, he’s unsure what type of withdrawal symptoms he might experience without the drugs his body depends on to survive, as well as the likelihood of him becoming frozen or rigid.
Arman and I decided that we needed a simple plan for emergency situations. After some research, we realized such a plan is much less complicated than we’d imagined. Following are some ways we’ve prepared ourselves for the unknown:
Medication: We already have all of Arman’s Parkinson’s medications organized and sorted in a large bin, and we have several weeks of medication just in case. It’s also a good idea to make a list of all current medications, dosages, and frequency. That’s on my to-do list.
DBS device: I placed the DBS programmer on a shelf near Arman’s medicine for easy access. He uses the charger daily in our den, so we must remember to grab this essential item in an emergency. We also must remember the cord that charges the charger!
Medical ID: After Arman was diagnosed with Parkinson’s, we purchased a medical ID bracelet. After his DBS surgery, we added the necessary information regarding that device. A medical ID bracelet or necklace is an excellent tool for anyone with a chronic illness, especially in an emergency of any kind. In addition, a helpful printable card from the Parkinson’s Foundation is available.
Emergency notifications: I signed up with CodeRED, which alerts me to emergencies in my area. Another option is Smart911, which looks like a great tool, but it’s not available in my area.
Create a list: Besides medications, I’m planning to make a list of family contacts, physicians, medical conditions, allergies, DBS specifics, and health insurance information. I’ll likely add more as I go.
I feel good knowing that we have a plan in place. Life is unpredictable, so we must prepare as much as possible for the unknown.
I hope this summary is helpful. Please leave a comment if you have any additional suggestions or ideas.
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Comments
Karen
Jamie, my husband also has Parkinson's.
I have a to-go bag that includes:.
Bottled water and Pedialite.
A notepad and pen.
Snacks.
A phone charger.
Sanitized hand wipes
A small blanket
Crossword puzzle book and a magazine.
Extra socks.
Chewing Gum. Do you know that helps with tremors in your mouth and tongue?
My Personal Record Keeper book. That has all his doctor's and medication.
Before I had this bag I found myself running around when we thought he was going to the hospital.
I also have a bag for me b/c I might have to stay in the hospital with him.
After six years he still doesn't take Parkinson's medication. We do all holistic therapy. A lot of working out and
honey, cucumbers, almonds, olive oil and vitamins every day.
Thanks for your articles about your husband. I always love to learn something new.
Karen
Jamie Askari
Hi Karen! This is such a helpful and comprehensive list for all; thank you for sharing. Interestingly, chewing gum does that; I was unaware of it. Thank you very much for reading!
Jana Joy Blay
Jamie, your list and thoughtfulness is a great reminder for me to update our supplies. We live in a hurricane and flood area and have generators, food, survival "bug-out" bins and boxes, propane, water, and lists of our essentials, paperwork, funds, etc. Your article reminds me to check them, update them for Parkinson's with Dementia (we're 2 years into it) and to think through just how life would need to be for the continuation of what's needed for PD/D. I've added several solar chargers for phones, and laptops, providing service is available. How to provide the needed continuity and comfort for the confusion that will be paramount in a disaster is what I'm thinking through now.
Jamie Askari
Hi Jana! I am glad that reading my column reminded you to update. Having a generator is wonderful; I am glad that you have the security of living in a vulnerable area. Great ideas and suggestions for all. Thank you for reading!
Bastien
This a great topic- thank you for writing about this! I have had this same discussion with my online support group. We covered some concerns and ideas that you and husband have- and added a few more - yes haha champion worriers
1. Have a couple of far away friends/ relatives who will be the contact 'hub' for you in case of regional emergency event
2. Upload inportant documents and photos to 'CLOUD' or even to your own email account ( you can make a 'folder' )
3. Pack a GO BAG - this is a ' Grab and Run' bag - usually a backpack. I live in a wildfire / earthquake area so this idea of having just minutes to run is familar. Lots of good info online about GO BAG
Once again - thanks . I am relieved to have other people who think / worry/ plan like me
Jamie Askari
Hi Bastien, these are fantastic ideas. Thank you for sharing, so helpful! Oh yes, I think ahead and worry constantly like you. Thanks for your comment, and I appreciate you reading!
Donna Stephens
In our emergency bag I also keep a copy of our advance directives and General Power of Attorney. (My husband has PD.I'm a retired hospice RN.)
Jamie Askari
Hi Donna, that is a great suggestion! Thank you for sharing; it will be helpful to many. I appreciate you reading ;)
Rick Burton
I have had PD for 20 years,without any serious symptoms until juat recently. I had an intervention with my children and Dr. I took a cognitive test which I did terrible on. MY Dr. took my car keys, and made me not cook anymore. My life has been turned upside down. Iam miserable . Don't know what to do, turning 75 this month.
Jamie Askari
Hi Rick, I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this. I am hopeful that you have some options in terms of transportation and food preparation. Hoping that things start to improve soon. Sending support your way!