Our Capabilities Define Us, Not Our Limitations

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by Mary Beth Skylis |

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Over the years, I’ve found myself attracted to writing stories about the underdog. I love learning about people who come up against seemingly insurmountable odds, only to overcome them through sheer grit, ingenuity, and determination.

In 2015, my first published article was about a woman who fell 45 feet while canyoneering in Utah. The fall resulted in a leg amputation. But 12 months after she lost her leg, she was hiking the entire 2,200-mile Appalachian Trail on a prosthesis. Hers was a story of triumph in that she refused to let her circumstances hold her back.

When it comes to stories about Parkinson’s disease, I exhibit a similar type of curiosity. But Parkinson’s is different in that there’s always a new challenge to overcome. Instead of tackling a single obstacle, my dad faces new dilemmas on a daily basis. One day, he might struggle to steady his tremors. Another, he may find himself having vivid dreams and acting out the violence in real life, which can be potentially dangerous for my mom.

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The speed at which Parkinson’s symptoms can change often feels overwhelming. We’re only beginning to address one concern when another develops.

Yet, just as the woman on the Appalachian Trail began defining herself by her capabilities instead of her limitations, I believe we can change our perspectives about Parkinson’s. The disease can be an opportunity for exploration instead of a life sentence. My dad can continue to be curious about finding new ways to accomplish tasks, rather than giving up and not moving forward.

Defining ourselves by our capabilities instead of our limitations creates an opportunity for empowerment. I used to observe this in my dad’s Rock Steady Boxing classes. By providing tiers of challenges and obstacles to overcome, the program gave my dad and the others important objectives that sparked motivation.

Then, instead of focusing on areas of weakness, my dad began to focus on his strengths and capabilities in order to climb the ladder of challenges. This strategy seemed to facilitate progress instead of stagnation. And I think there’s a lesson in that for all of us.

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