In the Battle Against Parkinson’s Disease, Are You a Warrior or a Worrier?

In the Battle Against Parkinson’s Disease, Are You a Warrior or a Worrier?

A warrior is not a worrier. A worrier has no peace, is filled with anxiety, and frets over the smallest things. Worriers tend to be lacking in courage and a calm spirit. 

Warriors exude courage. They are brave in the midst of the battle. They are fighters determined to not merely survive but to thrive. Warriors choose to march forward despite the war raging around them.

Parkinson’s warriors have been to the battleground many times. 

They have fought grief over losing pieces of themselves to this disease. 

They have battled depression and struggled for their mental well-being. 

Fear is no stranger in their war, but they muster up the courage to overcome it. 

The enemy of control has gathered its forces against their muscles and nerves, causing them to flail about, become weak, and tremble. They do their best to take charge, using the weapons available: physical therapy, medications, exercising, deep brain stimulation, and more.

The skill with which they once used their fingers to write or paint, garden or fix things, and button and zip their clothes is vanishing, and they realize they may not recover their dexterity.

But they must carry on.

I must not allow this disease to steal my hope that drives me to carry on in the midst of pain and grief. And you mustn’t either. Hope allows us to put one foot in front of the other regardless of our fear of falling — it may even put a cane into our hands. It allows us to focus on the positive things that might be and those that could be. It wears blinders to block out fear and prevent it from taking our joy and peace.

We must not allow it to diminish our courage. 

Our battle is tough, and we may feel that we’re fighting this disease alone. Parkinson’s can leave you feeling isolated, which makes it more difficult to fight.

That’s why it is so important to go out and get involved in the Parkinson’s community. Join an exercise class for those with Parkinson’s. You will meet new people and feel better mentally and physically. Support groups online or in-person will help you to feel connected and provide you with a safe place to share your experiences. 

If you feel like you’re fighting a battle with Parkinson’s and could use some reinforcements, let me know. You can never have too many soldiers around you. We’re not supposed to fight this disease alone. I’ll be with you on the battlefield.

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13 comments

  1. Brenda Godlove says:

    Thank you so much for your encouraging article. This is so true….I want to be a warrior, not a worrier. Right now, I’m a worrier trying to convert to a warrior. With God’s help, I will 🙂

  2. Jill Bennett says:

    Found article interesting and helpful. I was diagnosed with
    Parkinsons about two years ago. It is important to keep your sense of humour. I go to the gym two or three times a
    week which helps. However I fall over sometimes Which knocks my confidence.

  3. My son was showing signs of PD by his mid-twenties. Now diagnosed with PD with dystonia, he often feels that too much has been taken from him. His father, my husband, was in his 30’s when PD signs showed. By the time he died of PD with dementia, he had had three decades of trying to be a warrior. He has seen it all and had been a wonderful helper as we cared for my husband at home. My son’s disease is now taking his voice, increasing his isolation, deepening his depression, and has become a fading warrior in a well strategized effort.

    I was his father’s warrior. I am my son’s warrior.

  4. Cheryl boyd says:

    Wonderful words..my hubby a warrior fights to maintain his quality of life. He literally fights..Rocksteady boxing for folks with Parkinson’s. Amazing results!!

  5. Cosette says:

    Nice article! I have been living with my PD 2 years ago in my early 40s. I still can drive and walk to mall by myself but I have reluctancy to meet my families. I feel everyone will watch me walking differently and my symptoms getting worse if people notice me. I haven’t told my big family members about my condition because I don’t want to be the centre of attention . I am open to my close relatives but not to bigger circle of families. I tend to be introvert now . Any advice for me? Thank you.

  6. Elaine Craig Segal says:

    I never considered myself a warrior, but since having Parkinson’s for 15 years receiving strong support from the Parkinson’s community, I am proud to identify as a warrior. And I will continue to fight for my quality of life and that of other warriors, and even the warriors.

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