A Healthy New Identity Helps When Battling a Chronic Disease

A Healthy New Identity Helps When Battling a Chronic Disease

Identity, the “I” in CHRONDI Creed, refers to the process of finding a health-fostering identity in the face of a chronic disease that has stolen things we loved to do and caused the death of self. When everything I loved to do was taken from me, all that was left was the time and energy I was putting into managing the disease.

Dealing with chronic disease consumes a large amount of time, and conversations about me were now connected to the disease, including my own self-talk. Without even knowing how, and thinking I should know better, the disease had filled that void created by the death of self. The disease had become my identity, and I hated it. I had to find a healthy new identity to help when battling a chronic disease.

Trying to “find yourself” is tied to one of those great philosophical questions: “What is the nature of human existence?” I have written about this philosophical quest and I thought I had a handle on things, a strong identity of scientist, teacher, and healer. But when the roles I used to make meaning of my existence were stripped from me, I discovered that my intellectual writings provided a thin tether out of the dark void created by the death of self. The actions in my life, the conversations, did not match my identity roles of scientist, teacher, and healer. I needed to reconstruct these identity roles — trying on new hats, looking for one that helps me build a new healthy identity. I needed this new healthy identity to succeed in my battle with a chronic disease.

Getting one’s actions in life, the roles we take on, to match the true self is not an easy thing to do in the face of chronic disease. It takes a commitment of personal resources, courage, and persistence to create new healthy roles to fill the void left after the death of self. It also helps to have support from peers, friends, and family.

But most importantly, you need a fire in the belly, a passion, a purpose that brings meaning from these action roles you will be creating. Then you need to do something every day that will move you one step closer to that purpose-driven life and a healthy identity matching the true self.

I started working on creating these new roles in 1999 when I left all that was my life (home, career) to pursue a PhD — the second-hardest challenge I have faced in my life. I also retrained myself to use the computer as a way of teaching and for a tool in aiding scientific inquiry. In 2006 I applied those skills to a science research project, which, after 13 years, has yielded new discoveries ready to share with the public.

I is for identity
(Courtesy of Dr. C)

I have also forced myself to become a writer in the humanities by writing as often as time allowed. I forced myself to become a computer-aided graphic artist and taught myself how to design a website. These skills — web design, writing, and graphic arts — helped me to re-establish the multimodal teacher role.

In 2018 I became a column writer for BioNews Services, giving me the opportunity to put the multimodal teacher into action more frequently, hopefully as a role model. Recreating the roles of scientist and teacher, after the death of self, is ongoing for me. Every day is a commitment to these re-created healthy roles as part of building a new identity. It is hard work, but worth it.

The one part of my identity that is still trapped in the void after the death of self is my role of healer. It is a role that is closest to my true nature, my soul. I have received written testimonials from dozens of people who stated that their lives were changed through encounters with this healer role. I miss that contribution to the well-being of individuals and to the collective well-being of society. I am going to try a different hat. It’s a hat with which holding the compassion space for others is expected, and in some ways embraced, so I can bring my experience in doing that and use it — hopefully.

I don’t know what will happen while wearing this new hat. I am just opening the door to new possibilities.

What new hats are you trying? Share your experiences in the comments so others may benefit.

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Dr. C BNS Writer
I am a retired professor and research scientist along with being an artist, philosopher, writer, therapist and mystic. I am also a husband, father, grandfather, master gardener and Vietnam Vet. All of these roles influence how PD interacts with my life’s journey.
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Dr. C BNS Writer
I am a retired professor and research scientist along with being an artist, philosopher, writer, therapist and mystic. I am also a husband, father, grandfather, master gardener and Vietnam Vet. All of these roles influence how PD interacts with my life’s journey.

3 comments

  1. Oldřich says:

    Moc mi pomohlo když čtu tento článek,a dodalo mě novou sílu pro každodenní boj.Zdravý komisař nic neví.
    Dušek Oldřich

    English: It helped me a lot when I read this article and gave me a new power for everyday struggle.

  2. Dr S says:

    Thank you Dr C, this article really resonated with me. As a single parent and a woman in a male dominated academic discipline I had fought hard for my career. With postgraduate qualifications achieved through highly competitive scholarships, and significant prior experience in relevant areas I was becoming recognised as a global expert in my field when I was struck down.
    I was eventually diagnosed with a rare autoimmune disease and young onset Parkinson’s disease. It took years to obtain diagnosis and treatment and I learned that there are medical specialists who enjoy abusing power over vulnerable patients more than they take pleasure from diagnosing and treating such patients. I was consequently left untreated for two eminently treatable illnesses because I had “a plethora of unexplained symptoms”. It never occurred to these doctors to suspect two separate diseases. As a consequence of this medical incompetence I lost my career, my home, my income, and nearly all of my retirement fund.
    By the time I received a proper diagnosis I had advanced Parkinson’s disease and was severely disabled. I very much wanted to be a valuable member of society and to contribute in any way I could, as I always had.
    I needed to reinvent myself, and to help myself as well as others. From being a cool dependable person, who “worked best under stress” I became a stranger to myself. I had nightmares from which I awoke in the midst of panic attacks, I worried myself sick if I didn’t hear from a loved one for 24 hours, I catastrophised at every setback. Once an all round athlete I couldn’t walk without an aid.
    I was a simply, to the outside world, an incoherent cripple, with no achievements, no skills, nothing to offer, just another burden on society.
    I had finished writing a book, published various articles, and supervised some grad students. But I suffered from overwhelming fatigue, extreme anxiety, loss of confidence and severe physical pain from untreated, Parkinson’s related injuries.
    I had always enjoyed art and I found myself spending more of my time drawing and painting. It made me feel better so I went back to school and studied art therapy. I managed somehow to obtain the qualification and to reinvent myself.
    Sometimes I feel like an interloper. Life is still a struggle but I have discovered that, apart from experiencing some objective improvement in my fine and gross motor skills, which the physical therapists attiribute to my art-making (research backs this up) I am now able to use my new qualifications and share these benefits with others.
    Like Dr C, I had also set myself a range of challenging tasks. I created a website, I’m helping (less often than I’d like) to build an online database, (I’m not really IT competent), I’ve had an art exhibition (I’m a scientist and social scientist), I’m writing a book in another discipline… I have wonderful friends, delightful children and at least the hope that I will leave this life with dignity.
    I know that I’m on a slippery downwards slope but I’m metaphorically dancing down that slope now, wearing a bright, showy, new hat, and holding hands with a bunch of other people making the journey with me…

    • Dr. C says:

      Fantastic comment – bullseye! Thank you so much for sharing your insights. I am sure that your story will resonate with other readers.

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