Despite having early-onset Parkinson’s disease, I’m thankful
I'm grateful for clinical trial participants, friends, my medical team, and more
I have Parkinson’s disease. I was just 36 when I was diagnosed. It was a devastating blow. While I’ll never think of it as a blessing, it has been an incredible teacher, and I’m thankful for so much despite my diagnosis.
I think often about the brave clinical trial participants. These selfless people and families have been willing to put themselves in the hands of doctors to try new therapies that could help all of us who suffer. The drugs and treatments in trials may or may not move forward, but everything we learn takes us one step closer to new hope.
As recently as the 1990s and early 2000s, a drug called Sinemet (carbidopa and levodopa) was the only medication widely used to treat Parkinson’s. According to an article published in the Journal of Parkinson’s Disease, as of Jan. 31, 136 active clinical trials were evaluating therapies for Parkinson’s. Of those, 76 were considered a treatment for symptoms, and 60 were disease-modifying treatments, which means they’re designed to slow, improve, or reverse Parkinson’s — something we don’t have today.
I also have amazing friends who’ve stood by me and my husband, Ted, every step of the way since my diagnosis. Telling them about it was more sad than scary because I didn’t want them to think of me differently. I was still me.
I knew it would all be OK when we went out to dinner with our closest friends shortly after we told them the news. When we raised our glasses to toast the evening, one of my friends joked about how I might be shaky, but I’d never spill a drop of wine. Our friends have been there for the bad stuff but also to bring us back to earth with a laugh.
I’ve written about the excellent medical team I’ve been fortunate to put together to care for my health and well-being. Having a good team, as well as feeling empowered to ask questions and insist on answers, has been critical to my journey. I’m in charge of managing my disease, but a strong ally helps.
The little things
I often say Parkinson’s isn’t about the big things; it’s about the little things. Like pants without buttons or fasteners. And not wearing nylons or tights anymore because manipulating the thin fabric is a time- and energy-consuming nightmare. Or slip-on shoes that require no tying of shoelaces. And insulated cups with sippy tops to keep my margarita frosty and spill-free.
A lot of people have said to me that I got a raw deal being diagnosed with early-onset Parkinson’s disease at just 36. And I did. No matter your age or stage of life, Parkinson’s is a raw deal. But despite the difficulties, I still have much to be thankful for.
Every person has a different journey with Parkinson’s, but one thing we have in common is the human ability to persevere, to be thankful for each other, and for so many little things.
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Comments
Kelly Kenney
I developed Parkinson's at the age of 39 and am now 65. It moved so slow at first but has now reached the point where it's getting hard to do too much other than care for my daily needs. It's been hard though I'm still standing!💙✌🌹🤗
William Palmer
Thank you, Mollie. Feeling sorry for myself this morning, I read a NYT article by a mother whose fourteen year-old daughter had battled cancer for two years and died. I felt so bad for the family. It put my PD in a different perspective.
Brian Woodruff
Love your story. I also tell my friends and family I just have Parkinson's, I could have something else much worse so I'm very fortunate. I was diagnosed 4 years ago at 57 years old. I joke around a lot so my friends and family tease me about the shakes and I love it. They make me laugh and it keeps my spirits up. Speaking of spirits my friend told me I would make a great bartender, would you like your drink shaken or shaken?? lol
Wishing you the best, by the way I just got my name on the list for a trial (state side which may take a year or so) with Zhittya Genesis. This amazing protein called FGF1 has been in trials and is doing wonders. I highly recommend you take a look at what these folks are doing.
Have a happy holiday :)
Soleil Bonnin
Hi Mollie, thank you for this encouraging post. It was very uplifting. I was diagnosed with early onset PD at 29 and I’ll be 39 next month and at times i feel defeated. Thank you for using your platform to create awareness while staying positive and encouraging.
Karen Weldon
Thank you for this wonderful and accomplished and inspirational story of courage in spite of tremendous odds against her. She I’d an inspiration to all of us out here who are fighting this disease daily.
Karen Dohm
Thank you for your encouraging words! I am married to someone accurately diagnosed 9 months ago-- but we went through months of not knowing WHAT WAS WRONG WITH THIS ATHLETIC 70 YEAR OLD MAN!! The "problem"? He had no tremor. We have learned more about Parkinson's than we have ever wanted to know...gratefully, he is back on his bicycle now and taking his meds in the form of pill and patch. I sent him your article, as he struggles to have a positive and thankful attitude for God's many ways of caring for and blessing him. You are my hero, Mollie! God is glorified by your honest and transparent words...I am going to remember you in my prayers when I pray for my husband. May He be your strength and song (Psalm 139) Love and thanks to you...Karen