The ‘Aha’ Moments That Helped Me See a Life Beyond Parkinson’s

Was there a moment that made you realize that you have a life beyond your Parkinson’s diagnosis? Let’s call it an “aha” moment.

Maybe you have more than one. I actually have had quite a few, but two have had a profound influence on how I decided to live my life. One was inspired by a magazine, and the other was inspired by a book. 

The first ‘aha’ moment

The first happened in February 2016, three months after my DaTscan and official diagnosis. A Neurology Now magazine arrived in the mail with former NBA star Brian Grant on the cover. Grant shared his story of being diagnosed with young-onset Parkinson’s. While most of the Parkinson’s publications I receive end up in the trash or at the bottom of the cupboard, I decided to read his story.

As I read, I began nodding, agreeing, and fighting back my tears. It was like reading my own story, except that I am 5 feet tall on a good day and never made it to the NBA. However, I was finally reading something positive and connecting with it.

I decided to research the Brian Grant Foundation and learned that it promotes exercise, nutrition, and community. These tools offered a way to be proactive in what was to become the fight of my life.

The first domino

The website had an option to “submit your story.” My husband, Mike, encouraged me to write mine and submit it for publication. I thought the idea was ridiculous. Who would actually be interested in a story about a stay-at-home mom with young-onset Parkinson’s? 

I wrote and rewrote it numerous times. Eventually, I was comfortable with what I had written. It was the first part of my journey with Parkinson’s as a mom, wife, daughter, and friend. I submitted it and forgot about it. Whether it was published or not, it was therapeutic and cathartic to write. However, a few weeks later, I received an email stating that my story would be published on the website.

That “aha” moment and my first published piece were the first dominos in a chain of events that has led me to being who I am today — an author, a fitness instructor, and a personal trainer. I have attended events and fundraisers with various speakers, including Brian Grant. I met him, and he graciously posed for the picture below. Yes, he is a celebrity. However, when we are all in a room, he’s just another guy with Parkinson’s — a very tall one.

Brian Grant and Lori DePorter at the License to Cure event in November 2018. (Courtesy of Shake It Off 4 PD)

The second ‘aha’ moment

The Michael J. Fox Foundation website led me to my second “aha” moment. Actually, I had a series of these moments while reading the actor’s book “Lucky Man.” I could not think of any reason for the title of his book. Why would someone think getting Parkinson’s was lucky?

I was skeptical, but once again I found myself nodding in agreement and fighting back tears. It truly gave me a different perspective. My diagnosis was not the end of my life. It was a restart. I may not be in the fast lane, but I am still living my life. Yes. Life is different, but it is still good. 

So, look for your “aha” moments. You may be surprised by how far you have come and how much good is in your life.

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