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Being treated like you’re stupid.
I don’t know any other way to say this other than what the topic title says.
The normal folks have no clue what we go through! My family for one don’t understand no matter how many times I’ve explained to them that it takes me a bit longer to process information and to perform tasks. I’ve noticed this is more noticeable in the morning before I’ve had my first dose.
They accuse me of not listening when I don’t jump up to do things right away, or not doing things quick enough and they end up literally pushing me aside and taking over the task. This happened a week ago while my brother and I were painting the living room walls. I was tasked with washing the woodwork and walls with some TSP and a rough sponge. Because I wasn’t cleaning fast enough, I was yelled at and told to get lost.
The thing is, it’s not just my family that has done this. A so-called friend of mine, or now ex-friend, did this to me on a trip we took together. The trip was a nightmare to begin with complete with a car that died requiring me to rent a vehicle in order for us to travel.
We stopped at a fast-food restaurant during our travels. I had trouble getting out of the rental car and keeping up with my “friend”. It didn’t help that this was summertime with temps hovering around 98 F (37 C) with 85% humidity, which made me feel faint.
I got out of the vehicle and stood up slowly since I was feeling dizzy and wobbly. I also was shuffling, and my gait was off. I heard what he said, but it took me time to line up the tasks in my mind what had to be done. It’s those extra seconds or minute which sends people over the edge, I guess.
We went into the restaurant and got our drinks and table. It was then I said my piece because I had been holding it inside for a few days since this wasn’t the only incident where this occurred because I was asked to get something out of the car and didn’t jump immediately.
I told my “friend” that I am not stupid. I am just slower thinking and slower doing and that it takes me time to process what’s being told in order for me to carry out the tasks which will take me a bit longer to perform. I said this loud enough for other to hear and glare at him while this big brute of a man shrunk down to nothing in his seat.
He was a bit nicer afterwards, but not by much. We no longer speak even though he has reached out on occasion.
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