10 Things People with Parkinson’s Love, Loathe, and Long for

10 Things People with Parkinson’s Love, Loathe, and Long for

Sherri Journeying Through

Patients with Parkinson’s disease have pet peeves they loathe, treasures they love, and things they want. Following are some of them. Feel free to add to the lists in the comments section below.

10 things Parkinson’s patients loathe:

  1. A doctor who obviously couldn’t care less.
  2. Trying to do something with disobedient fingers.
  3. “Da plane, da plane!” (The pain, the pain.)
  4. Ignorant questions and comments someone makes about the shaking.
  5. Noticing symptoms are increasing or worsening.
  6. Feeling like a burden.
  7. Being unable to do things they used to do, such as tying shoes or buttoning a coat.
  8. People thinking they’re mad or sad because PD borrowed a smile and won’t give it back.
  9. Falling.
  10. Finding it hard or impossible to handwrite a letter or note.

10 things Parkinson’s patients love:

  1. Other people with PD who understand firsthand.
  2. Not shaking.
  3. When meds are working well.
  4. When doctors treat them as if they matter and don’t need to rush.
  5. Dopamine!
  6. Good days.
  7. Supportive family and friends.
  8. Slip-on shoes and slippers.
  9. Massages.
  10. Support groups.

10 things Parkinson’s patients long for:

  1. To feel good.
  2. To smell dinner or the flowers along the path.
  3. People to believe that they aren’t faking about having a chronic disease.
  4. Others to understand that even though you can’t see it, the disease is always quite visible to its carrier.
  5. More dopamine. We gotta have more cowbell. Er, dopamine!
  6. To not tremble, but instead, smell with their noses and taste with their tongues.
  7. To make others aware of the struggles people with Parkinson’s face.
  8. A soft bat to hit others over the head with when they make thoughtless comments.
  9. To find a medication that doesn’t knock them out for half a day, but instead, knocks out PD.
  10. A cure.


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Sherri was diagnosed with Young Onset Parkinson's disease over fifteen years ago. She can be found working in her garden, going for walks, taking pictures, or reading books to her three favorite grandkids. Taking life somewhat slower, and perhaps with guarded steps, but she’s not giving in.


  1. David and Darcy says:

    My husband has Parkinson’s and we follow this website. We were amazed to find that we have and are facing the exact same “10 things Parkinson’s patients loathe”. We thought we were the only ones! Of course the VA neurologists have made it their mission to find a differential diagnosis instead of discussing treatment and symptom management. But they also don’t want to recognize that all the other medications prescribed (and taken) did nothing to alleviate the symptoms except for the Levo-dopa. Go figure. It has been an uphill battle which we continue to press forward. So the validation of your post means so very much to us. We aren’t crazy after all.
    Yours in brotherhood/sisterhood with PD….

  2. Carolyn Ibberson says:

    I would love people to understand that it is not just people over 65 who get it, young people develop it too, i started with symptoms at 41, i wasn’t diagnosed until i was 46. Those 4 years of my life were terrible. I thought i’d gone mad.

  3. Fred says:

    Loathe: Trying to toothpaste on the brush with out it flying everywhere
    Love: How creative it makes me
    Long for: stem cell cure

  4. Edith Pashler says:

    My husband had Parkinsons (unforgently passed away last month).
    I miss him greatly.
    None of his medications were helping him only got worse and Demensia set in. His greatest wish was always that he could walk again or got some mobility back at least. My husband must heve been in some great pain at times or most of the time and he never complaind, not very often did he take any pain killers.
    Robin you were the very best I ever could have Love You R.I.P.Xx

  5. Terry Reilly says:

    Hi Sherri !! Thank You for writing about Parkinson’s and the effects it has on us ,and our families. I would like to say that a supportive family is so very important !! Also I won’t be doing as good as I am without my incredible doctor!! She listens and if I call her office with a concern, she calls me back that same day to discuss it !!!

  6. Ira Ramsey says:

    My heart is broken. Today my wife of 51 years was admitted in a place for those with Dementia. Though I have had PK for several years I took pride in being her caregiver. But my PK has gotten so bad I just could not provide the care she needed. I do have one major regret, I wish I had been the husband and lover she deserved.

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